Dating advice by red and blue
I learned a lot from all that messaging and swiping.
I learned to respond briefly to formulaic questions like “How are you? ” I learned not to add pictures showing cleavage, unless I wanted to attract sleazy “sup girl” messages.
You’ve been called midget, Tiny Tim, Grumpy and all the other names.
You watch women – even women who’re around pass you by to date taller men. But you know what’s unattractive on aspect of your life.
But, most of all, I learned that online dating isn’t actually as scary or intimidating as I’d imagined.
Over the years, I’ve dated and slept with women of all heights, ranging from 5’1″ to six-foot tall amazons.
The trick is understanding how to make height less of an issue.
Seem like a tall order1 It’s not, if you know the secrets.
But hey, that’s cold comfort when women are putting “six feet tall, minimum” in their dating profiles and your friends all call you “Short Round”.
The thing is, as with many other masculine insecurities, this is predominantly in our heads. Worse, I’m the shortest of all my friends who range from 5’1o” on the short side, to 6’7″ on the tall side.