Smoker woman dating
When you’re a health nut and need your partner to be a health nut, too Some people pride themselves in prioritizing physical health, including eating healthfully, exercising, and avoiding all unhealthy behaviors.But to suggest that smokers don’t similarly value healthfulness would be inaccurate.Some people simply have a very keen sense of smell to the point that many odors – not just smoke – induce a noxious reaction.For those of you who have a negative physical reaction to the smell of smoke, you obviously can’t date a smoker.Many smokers also work out and eat healthfully; smoking, for them, provides a way for them to relax or ease stress.This coping mechanism is an unhealthy one, but understand that someone who smokes may not necessarily be unhealthy in the other parts of their life as well.While I can understand that you may be turned off by smoking, you shouldn’t be more turned off than you are by any other number of problematic behaviors you’ll come across in the dating world: lateness, flakiness, canceling plans at the last minute, having a bad temper, being self-centered or controlling, getting jealous, being financially stingy, flirting with others in front of you, preferring to talk mostly about themselves.infidelity, excessive drinking or other substance abuse, and so on.
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I am a non smoker who started dating a heavy smoker. I have had a very hard time dealing with this for some reason and feel it has changed me forever.
So be it, but you’ll be missing out on all the other great traits I have.
I will find someone who accepts me for the overall package that I am. Seth is a licensed clinical psychologist, author, Psychology Today blogger, and TV guest expert.
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